Life can be very stressful. Many people use alcohol to relax and to combat the effects of stress. We might tell ourselves that alcohol will reduce our stress… and to begin with, it might seem to help us relax. However, using alcohol in this way can lead to a vicious cycle of problems. If we use alcohol as a treatment for something that is wrong in our lives, without doing anything positive about the underlying problem, the drinking may become a further problem.
Alcohol affects mood. Even small amounts can amplify emotions making us feel more relaxed, merry, aggressive, or depressed and suicidal when we are drinking. Drinking alcohol when we’re worried or feeling down can make us feel even worse. Our moods affect our behaviour, both at the time, and afterwards. The day after drinking, alcohol can especially make feelings of anxiety and depression worse. We may feel anxious and depressed which may lead us to drink again to cope.
Hangovers make concentration harder and even simple tasks more difficult
Alcohol disrupts sleep, leaving us tired and irritable
Knowing we’re drinking too much can be stressful in itself
Drinking can result in stressful financial difficulties.
When your body perceives or experiences stress, it responds by secreting hormones into your blood in an attempt to cope with the stressor. This stress response affects the way your body functions and alters your body temperature, appetite, and mood. This is one reason some people turn to alcohol after a stressful event. In many cases, people will turn to alcohol when a stressful situation feels out of their control. A number of factors, including genetics, usual drinking behavior, experiences with alcohol or other drugs, and social support, are factors in determining whether a person will drink during a stressful situation.
Some studies have found that alcohol itself can actually trigger the stress response. But other studies suggest that low levels of alcohol can reduce stress, tension, and anxiety. Moderate drinking has even been shown to improve your mood. So which is it? Does drinking help or exacerbate stress?
Although low doses of alcohol have been shown to reduce stress, research has shown that alcohol induces some of the same physiologic effects as other stressors.
A standard drink measures the amount of alcohol, not the amount of liquid you're drinking - because it's the alcohol content that is most important to track.
One standard drink equates to 10 grams of pure alcohol. Your liver can only remove roughly one standard drink per hour.
Stress happens when the pressure and challenges of our lives exceed our ability to cope.
Alcohol is not a healthy way of dealing with stress. Drinking to deal with stress can interfere with work, relationships, finances, and lead to more problems, like alcoholism and health complications.
If you find yourself in a stressful situation, it is important to have coping strategies that don’t involve drinking. To reduce or control the stress you are experiencing, the following strategies are recommended:
It’s okay to be stressed sometimes – it happens to everyone. What is important is to deal with it in positive ways. Don’t wait until things feel “out of control.” By then, you may no longer know that you need help. Physical activity can help to improve the way we feel about ourselves and our bodies, boost mood and concentration, aid sleep and reduce reactions to stress.
Aim to get at least 30 minutes’ exercise three times a week.
Do something you enjoy that stops you thinking about daily concerns for a while, like playing sport or making music.
Taking regular breaks stops things getting on top of us.
Share your worries – talking through problems helps get worries in perspective. Writing things down can help too.
Learn to say ‘no’ – be clear about where your limits are and how much you can realistically take on. If you say ‘yes’ to everything and breakdown under the pressure, you’ll be of no use to anyone, yourself included.
Plan ahead -take one thing at a time. If your workload seems unbearable, pick one urgent task at a time to work on. When you finish that task, choose another.
Problem solving – stress is often caused by problems in our lives. Pinpoint what they are and identify small steps you can take to improve the situation.
Start by simply saying no. Drinking is a choice and with any luck this will be enough, although as the night goes on friends who took no for an answer when sober may try to get you to start drinking later after they have had a few
Announce your intention to abstain early. This shows that you are confident about your stance and came prepared.
If people think that there is a health-related issue that causes you not to drink, they will be less likely to pressure you. You could be on medication. There is nothing wrong with choosing not to drink, and you shouldn’t have to lie, but if it eases the situation, it might be the best option at the moment.
Say that you have somewhere to be later, or early the next morning, and that it is important you do not drink.
If you think it will be hard for you to say no, plan to arrive late and leave early so you'll be less tempted to drink.
If you're still being pressured to drink and are feeling uncomfortable, leave the situation.